Why do you keep attracting the same kind of relationships?

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "Not again…" the moment someone breaks your heart?
You're not broken. You're repeating a pattern.

Maybe it's always the emotionally distant person. Or the one who promises a lot and disappears. Maybe it's someone who makes you work for attention. Sound familiar? That's not coincidence — it's history on repeat.

Here's the short version: we draw people who match our inner story about love. That story comes from childhood, old hurts, and the small beliefs we never bothered to question — like "I don't deserve to be seen" or "I have to earn love." Those beliefs act like a magnet. You won't notice it until you start looking.

I'll be blunt: the solution isn't fixing other people. It's changing your inner script.
Start small — name the pattern, feel the pain without running, and ask: What do I truly want? Then teach yourself to accept it. Over time, your choices change, and so does who shows up.

Real change is messy. It's honest work. But when you shift what you believe about yourself, the type of relationships you attract shifts too — toward safety, respect, and real connection.

If you're tired of repeats and ready to write a new story, DM me. Let's map your pattern and build different habits — together ✨

— Marta, Relationship Coach
📩 contact@amoreacoaching.com

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